Never better
Posted by ivy | Under About Me, Down and out, Why I hate him Sunday Apr 13, 2008I don’t think i’ll ever get better. The sinus infection I had let up and I thought I was better.. Friday evening the ear ache hit. The worst pain ever. I cried myself to sleep.. I’ve been using antibiotic ear drops in it but its not going to fight the cause of the infection (Sinuses) so I’m going to need to go to the dr and soon!
Dh and I have been fighting. Non stop. I’m so over it! He doesnt get it. At all. He can’t seem to understand where i’m coming from. i get where he is coming from. Its his thinking that he works and I dont. Its his money so he thinks that he should be able to spend it however he likes. He just doesnt listen and understand that he made a commetment when he decided to ge tmarried. He wasn’t forced into this relationship nor was he forced to become part of this family. But now he is in it and he has responsibilities and the bills and these kids come FIRST! I NEVER put myself first.. EVER. And i’ve missed out on a lot of things. I do with out most of the time so that the kids and the bills are taken care of. WHY isnt it the same for him? Why? Oh wait thats easy! because its HIS MONEY! asshole!
The kids are doing well.. Diva passed the TAKS(I think thats it) test that she needed to pass to move to the 4th grade.. i still can’t believe that next year i’ll have a 4th grader!
I guess thats it for now..
my sis ended up with a ruptured ear drum and needed tubes put in a few weeks ago. it seems like adults are getting ear infections more often these days!
ewww i hate when guys are possessive with money because they’re the ones that were paid. jerks!
Perhaps you should write up a bill for services rendered and present it to DH…let him pay yuu for your work. Let’s see, it goes somdehing like:
Cleaning services for ___ bedroom house. $200/wk
Laundry services for one adult male, and four children. %50/wk
Nanny services for four children $250/week
Meal preparation 3xday, 7 days per week…..$$300/week
Chauffering service for husband and four children. %100/week
Personal shopper for groceries, clothing, household goods, etc. $150/week
Misc. secretarial and administrative services making appointments, opening mail, keeping files,,address and phone number retensionn,, planning schedules, , budgeting and paying bills and other financial duties, and other miscellaneous duties. $250.00 week
This list is not all incusive and doesn’t consider the services you provide as a wife and lover. Services rendered by being best friend to mate and associated services.
$??????
Tally up that bill and rpresent it to your hubby. He may decide you get a say in how the money is spent. It’s not like you are sitting around with your thumb in your ear!